Lately, I have been hearing a lot from friends about their unhappiness relating to love issues. I ain't an ultimate successor in love relationship. Nevertheless, I would like to offer advice to you guys and girls. Don't ever let opportunities slip off your hands. The hardest thing to achieve in life would be the "One & Only Love".

Trust your instincts be true to yourself in the first place before you take a step ahead. Conversely, it is important to know what are the surrounding external factors which can be the barriers to further a relationship. Many a times, people usually see the surface of a problem. I have been through what a normal female would experience in a relationship. From the past incidents, i realised how silly i was to cause an arguement or quarrel to surface. Be it a minor issue or rather more serious ones, the only exit to it would be to put yourself in the other person's shoe, then analyse the situation in your perception. I understand that when an arguement or quarrel is strike, most people would counter attack than to withdraw. Why don't just be calm and cool down even before going into the matter? Its abosultely not referring to cold war. And i strongly disagree with people who would choose to let the matter rest. When its time to solve a problem, do it. Don't sit on it or put it aside thinking that it will be forgotten as time goes by.

In addition, don't ever assume. By making judgement that he/she did wrong would do more harm than good. Forget about the common sense or logic. Well, kinda ambitious to say that and by saying is hassle-free while putting it into practice is indeed challenging. In fact, it takes time to achieve whatever that we want in life. Love takes time to grow too. To allow that to happen, we need be patient and forgiving. A relationship will only be drawn closer under the conditions whereby two people would live in each other's world and share joy, laughters, sadness and tears altogether. There are cases in which both parties have different mistmatched characters and personalities making it tough to work things out, but look around..there are successful cases. Those are the people who make the extra effort. Make changes while comprosing with one another. Its never easy to find someone with identical character.

Simply enjoy the process. Cry or quarrel when it is necessary. At the end, keep in mind that we should discard the unhappy memories and keep those sweet and lovely ones. Many people would bear grudge and the worst thing to do is to bring up the past in the midst of a fight. Stop looking back.. Move on. Quit being a mawkish person wanting to let go but on the other hand keeps on talking about the past issues. No one says love is perfect, its the little cracks in it that makes us stronger.